I think #80 is best as it suits your Target Audience best. You talk about “being prepared and organized”, planning ahead and routines, being present and doing for their families. All of this is held together by the Momcode. “code” being the operative term here.
So, I think flowers and plants or random patterns (100, 93, 91 and 94) don’t represent a code. Interestingly 99 has morse code in the circle but I think the design is too busy and won’t stand out well on packaging etc.
#80 stands out more so will be easier to see and the heart shape represents the mother’s love while the criss-crossing lines sort of represent the ‘momcode” that holds it all together.